Baby's First Day at Home
The moment that you have waited for has finally arrived: the day
you bring your newborn baby home from the hospital. Like all
other expectant parents you will have spent the last nine months
preparing for this day. You will have a baby room full of
everything a newborn could possibly want. You will have read
book after book on a wide magnitude of baby topics from what to
name your baby to when you can expect those first words. You
will have walked and paced the length of baby's room, imagining
your little bundle sleeping peacefully in her crib. Now the
moment has arrived. In the crib lies your sleeping baby and the
most exciting adventure of life is about to begin.
The first few days home from the hospital are just as important
to you as they are to your baby. As new parents you will have
gone through an exciting birth that will have left you
breathless and exhilarated.
During your first days at home it may be wise to limit the
amount of visitors that you welcome into your home. You need
time to recuperate and settle into the routine that a sleeping,
feeding, and often crying baby brings into your life.
As a new mother you will need to pay particular attention to
the way that you are feeling so that those "baby blues" don't
creep up and surprise you unexpectedly. It is normal to feel a
bit out of sorts and sad for the first couple of weeks after
giving birth. Your body is going through some major physical
changes after the birth of your baby. Your hormones will be
changing and you likely will be feeling a lack of sleep. You
should be patient with yourself, understand that all these
feelings are normal, and that in a couple of weeks things will
feel better for you.
If you find that you are feeling more and more depressed, and
find it difficult to care for yourself and your family, you
should consult your doctor so that he/she can determine if you
are suffering from a condition called postpartum depression.
While not serious, postpartum depression can leave a new mother
despondent, tired, and subject to emotional swings and loss of
appetite. The effects of giving birth, hormone changes and the
lifestyle changes of having a newborn (not sleeping, being
indoors a lot, responsibilities of caring for a baby) can lead
to a bout of the baby blues. Baby blues are usually short lived
and go away without treatment.
During the first few days at home your family will be adjusting
to the additional member of your family. If you have other
children at home you may be dealing with feelings of jealousy as
the new baby takes center stage. Make sure that you include your
other children in the day-to-day activities that are part of the
new baby's routine. Let older children help with diaper
changing, feeding, and just sitting and holding the new baby if
they are old enough to do so.
This is your time to adjust to the changes in your life and
settle into a comfortable routine...at least for the moment!
