Baby Yoga and Me
by: Lucy Curran
Having
carried a sizable bump around for a very long, very hot summer,
I really wasn't in the mood for a work out.
As Gwyneth Paltrow and all of my other
coat-hanger thin celebrity peers snaked their way, all skin and
bone about the tabloids, I scowled and knew that, even if the
mood did ever take me as I sat covered in powered milk, I would
just never have the time to get back in shape now that I always
had my baby in toe. After all, its not as if I could balance
Harry on the rowing machine as I made for the nearest treadmill
- I didn't think they'd like that down at the health club.
I did try the gym. Once. Inspired by
Gwynnies size eight flat chestedness I did deposit Harry at my
mums', and went for one swim amongst the well toned - but my
self-esteem could just not cut it. Having been a large pregnant
woman and having had a difficult birth, my body was not as it
should be, and I didn't stay for long. I'm sure no one cared
about my having varicose veins now, but I did, and I suddenly
felt very much like a mum, and nothing else.
Loosing faith in the idea that I'd ever
have a waist again, I pooled my NCT friends to see if they had
any tips on how to regain a good shape, without the
embarrassment.
There was no way I was doing yoga. It
turned out after speaking to the girls that they already had a
fitness plan, and were meeting to go to some yoga class the
following week. I'd only ever seen yoga on television, and I
wouldn't have even considered trying it pre-Harry - I was never
that skinny and stealth. The women all looked like they hadn't
eaten for at least five years, and there was no way I was ever
learning how to be a 'delicate lotus' with all of the cellulite
I'd accumulated now. I lied and told them I couldn't get a
babysitter.
Turns out you can take your little ones to
baby yoga. I was worried it would be new agey, but our first
session soon dispelled all the worries I had about that.
Friendly and chatty, the class was only for parents, and I met a
whole gaggle of new local mums. We chatted about our babies,
their first rolls, nappies and missing socks, and Harry played
merrily with the other tots that were there - something which
really made me smile as he's an only child and I was worried
that when it came to mixing with other babies he'd wouldn't
cope. Turns out he's a bit of a socialite - that's my boy!
A qualified baby yoga teacher, our leader,
Sue, started us off with some very simple stretches, which were
fine for any physical type. Her training with Birthlight means
she knows exactly what our bodies have been through, and so
nothing was too much. I was petrified that Harry would cry when
it came to including him in the work out (the baby isn't put
under any stress either by the way - there's just lots of great,
gentle skin to skin contact and muscle stimulation, no sun
salutations just yet!) but he just smiled. It must feel good,
after all, to have the shouty tired woman who's been harassing
you for all this time give you some proper, physical warmth and
lavish attention.
The stimulation that babies receive doing
yoga releases endorphins in the brain, and so they clearly glow
after a session, just as we do after a turn at the gym. It was
great to know he felt so cared for.
As time went on, our classes did become
more adventurous. The stretches we learned started to actively
include our babies (they are fabulous weights!) and we all
became far less inhibited, and felt happy to move onto the more
complex movements.
To calm the babies, Sue introduced music
into the classes, which soothed them no end - in all the time
I've been going now, I don't think we've ever had a baby have to
be taken out for crying. After Harry's bath, I often do yoga
with him at home now, and the heat of my hands and the slow,
rhythmic nature of the movements send him to sleep with much
greater ease than a simple cuddle and a song tape ever could. He
started sleeping through the night months before a lot of other
babies that we know, and I'm in no doubt that that has sonething
to do with our yoga.
Being an enthusiast now, I've read up on
the later benefits of what baby yoga can do and I'm excited.
It's clear from the fact he rolled early that Harry has good
spatial awareness, and plenty of confidence in what his body is
capable of. When we took him for his eight-month check my health
visitor told me he will miss out crawling stage - his spine is
strong, and having been made aware of the limitations of his
body through yoga, he doesn't need to go through the exploration
that crawling allows.
As well as the very evident physical
benefits of baby yoga, it's also been a lifesaver for me. On
maternity leave I was a bit of a lonely mum, and now I have
something of a network. Size ten again and happy, there is never
a morning goes by when Harry and I do not have a play date. It's
turned things around. I think ill go down the gym tomorrow.
To find details of Baby Yoga activities in
your area visit www.busylittleones.co.uk
About the Author
Lucy is an avid sailor and writer and has been involved in child care for many years.
