by: Graham Johns
It's amazing how fearless toddlers can be. Their
innocence about the world around them allows them to
pick up objects that we know are best left alone.
They will put all sorts of things in their mouths,
poke at others, prod at some, and try to take
equipment or toys apart while you, the adult, cringe
in worry of what's to come of this open curiosity.
Fortunately, most of these worrying habits cause no
harm to the toddler or none of us would have
survived our parents' worry past kindergarten!
However, there are some situations that are
dangerous or could even prove fatal for the
unsuspecting toddler. Inside and outside of the
house, a toddler requires constant supervision to
keep them safe from the very world around them and
the myriad troubles they can get themselves into. A
toddler has no notion of what is safe and what
isn't, so it's up to the adult to watch for these
dangers.
Inside your home, everybody knows about covering
electric sockets, stoves, and keeping chemicals and
medicines out of children's reach. But your home is
beset with dangers you probably haven't thought
about. You know how dogs like to drink out of
toilets? So do toddlers! There must be something
innately fascinating about toilet bowls that lures
dogs and children. Try keeping the lid down and the
bathroom door shut. Your dog may be unhappy, but
your child will be germ-free.
Toddlers are also drawn to pet food. Fish food, bird
seed, dried dog food - toddlers, with their
perfectly reasonable logic, think that if it's okay
for the pets to eat, it must be okay for them to
eat! After all, pets eat human food, so why can't we
eat animal food? Try gently reminding your toddler
that animal food is only okay for animals, not for
people. Be prepared for that ever-popular question,
"But WHY?"
There are dozens of choking hazards in your home.
Rubber bands, paper clips, twisty-ties from bread
wrappers, coins, even food items like chips and
crackers can be hazardous. If you were to interview
a hundred ER physicians, most of them would tell you
stories about clashes between little kids and
household items. A classic story is the physician
who removed a nickel from the nose of a
five-year-old! This is a good time to teach your
toddler that loose items and their orifices isn't a
good match.
Outside, toddlers think nothing of touching and/or
picking up things out of curiosity that would make
an adult shriek! Bugs, worms, plants - nothing's
safe from a four-year-old sleuth. If you live in the
south, you know that Mistletoe grows abundantly on
trees much like moss. Kids are drawn to this pretty
parasite and have no idea that, if ingested, it's
deadly poison! Jimsonweed is a common, rather
pretty, roadside herb that causes intense
hallucinations and psychotic behavior if chewed.
These are just two examples of common plant hazards;
teach your child never to put anything in his/her
mouth that you haven't okayed. Bugs are generally
harmless if eaten, but it's not a good idea to take
chances.
Teach your toddlers never to touch a snake, lizard,
turtle, toad, or any other creature of the outdoor
world unless an adult is present. While most of
these critters are harmless, toddlers don't know a
garden snake from a copperhead! Alligator snapping
turtles can whack off a toddler's tiny finger in a
split second. If you live in a rural area, it's
imperative that you teach your child to leave
outdoor citizens alone! If you live near a beach,
teach your toddler that sea urchins, crabs, and
jellyfish can hurt them despite their harmless and
fascinating appearances.
Endless curiosity is part of the charm of watching a
child grow up. Through children, we get a second
chance to see the world through new eyes. Toddlers,
in turn, get to see the world through adult eyes as
we teach children how to temper curiosity with
caution and point out that sometimes, fun things can
be harmful. Be patient, let children learn, and be
there to keep them from getting into trouble with
their explorations. You will always worry about your
children, no matter what age they might be, but for
the time being, you can do your best to show them
the difference between safe and sorry.
About the Author
Graham Johns writes regularly for toddler and young children sites
